Bullies. Suicidal thoughts. Partial hospitalization. Knee reconstruction. Depression. Anxiety. Cancer. Get knocked down seven times but stand up eight. Throughout my twenty-two years I have been through more than an average person will experience throughout their entire life (some things not listed for fear of being politically incorrect). However, I try my hardest to not let the bad times get to me, to keep moving forward and learn from the hardships without letting them break me. The easiest thing a person can do is give up and become the victim. True strength is taking your past and using it to make you stronger.
Starting in elementary school I was bullied enough to the point where my parents took me out of school and moved me into another. From this I learned about empathy and respecting the emotions of others without judging them. Having suicidal thoughts was almost a breaking point until I discovered that in order to be happy I needed to change my attitude and be grateful for what I do have. Being violated and abused doesn’t define who you are. This taught me about loving myself and about how I deserve a love that does not strip me of my dignity. Knee surgery helped me discover that if I put in the effort I would come back stronger than I was before. I would have never predicted that after all of this I would still have more unpleasant events coming my way. I learned that I should never base my decisions on the advice of those who never have to deal with the results. My struggles with depression and anxiety have given me the opportunity to empathize with others and understand that everyone has their own demons they are trying to fight, all you can do is refrain from judgment and remain supportive.
It wasn’t until I was diagnosed with cancer that I came to understand how precious life is. I have come to realize that because of cancer I will understand more deeply, appreciate more quickly, hope more desperately, love more openly, and live more passionately. You are given one life to live. Regardless of your struggles and hardships there is always someone who is worse off so take advantage of the life you are given. Show the world that you do not let your scars define you. Stand up when the world thinks you should be falling down and always keep a smile on your face because the strongest people are those who remain optimistic when times get tough. All in all I have been kicked to the curb and punched in the gut until I could no longer breathe. Tough times never last, but tough people always do.
An anonymous person once said, “I do not know how my story will end, but nowhere in my text will it ever read ‘I gave up’.” Because of everything I have been through I refuse to define myself by the things that have happened to me or brought me down, rather, I want to be defined by the person within me who has shown that perseverance trumps all negativity. Through continued endurance I have begun to understand that I am still here for a reason. I made it through hell in order to recognize that I have a purpose. I am an example to those who need a “hero”, I am compassionate and understanding of others going through situations similar to my own, and I am able to recognize that through perseverance I have grown into the person who I am meant to be. This is why I believe in perseverance, because the hard times will only make you stronger in the end.
Cancer is Stupid 
Katie you are my hero. I love you with all my heart. 😍
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Thanks, Katie, for your powerful, honest, and inspirational message, one I needed to read. Deacon Dave
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I just had Lauren read it. She couldn’t believe all that you have been through (as she considers you just about perfect in every way :). Amazing journey so far and definitely someone to look up to. ❤️You lots
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omg seriously love her and miss her so
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Katie-
Yes, you are strong and only God knows why strength came to you in such a horrific way. I will tell you that you have been an inspiritation to me in so many ways. You are wise beyond your years – I know because I’m 70 and not nearly as strong and wise as you. May you continue to grow in wisdom, strength, and love so that I can continue to learn from you. You are a good person!
Hugs-
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My goodness! No way are you 70?!?!? you look like the ripe age of 50 I kid you not. Thanks for being one of the best teachers I could have ever asked for 🙂
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Katie….. I just love and admire you. You make me smile and I am just so thankful for knowing you and your family.
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I have always believed you were special since the day you were born, of course grandmothers think all their grandchildren are special. I love and admire you, the past couple of years have been tough, your strength has inspired so many, your willingness to share your story.
I love you to the moon and back!
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So proud of you, Katie. Keep moving forward and letting the world know you are here. You will certainly make it a better place. Love you.😘
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Well girlie you simply amaze me with your writing its simply beautiful as you articulate words in the most moving ways thru your passage in life. I loved your smile your laugh your kindness and you as a whole yet you hv taken it to more….. thank you for being you and sharing your story.
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Well girlie you simply amaze me with your writing its simply beautiful as you articulate words in the most moving ways thru your passage in life. I loved your smile your laugh your kindness and you as a whole yet you hv taken it to a much higher level the world needs you….. thank you for being you and sharing your story.
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Well said Katie!! Thanks for the reminder and sharing your truth!! Stay strong!!❤️
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I thought about your post as I layed in bed last night. I could not stop thinking about what an amazing teacher you will be because of your journey and what it has taught you. This knowledge is far more powerful than the skills you will learn in school. You will truly be able to influence kids for their lifetime! Stay positive and persistent. It will serve you well. Sarah is lucky to have you as a friend! LOL😘
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Gpa Here….
Profound stuff to be sure. I think Pooh said it best:
“What day is it?”, asked Winnie the Pooh
“It’s today,” squeaked Piglet
“My favorite day,” said Pooh”
PL&FC
Love,
Gpa
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Katie, You have a profound perspective to share with so many. So very proud of you and your evolving maturity through your adversities. Love ❤️ Always, to the Moon and Beyond!!
Miss Linda
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Remind me to hug you next time I see you. ❤️❤️
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I miss the shit out of you woman!
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